Nowadays, there are many parents feel unhappy because of selfish children. They just know how to receive something from the other people around them. And they don’t care about what they have to do. To avoid falling into this circumstance, parents should teach children concern other people. Here are some tips for adults
First, parents have to do it before.
Children tend to do as parents do. Thus, you have to be good people with people around. After seeing it, children will do many good things. For example, if you are eating a cake, you should divide it into 2 parts. Then you give your child a part of the cake. In some holiday, cousins gather at your house. At that time, parents should remind children share foods and toys with their cousins. These things above can help children know how to concern and share with people around.
Second, parents should educate children from little things at home.
There are many household chore suitable with children. Washing dishes, collecting toys, clean the house are suitable with kids. Teaching children how to do housework helps children in many aspects. Adults should let children do work appropriate with children’s abilities. Parents shouldn’t pampering children too much. Do like this, kids will be dependent in parents and other people around them. ParParents should assign work for children deftly. Besides, adults should instruct children do these assignment step by step. When you do it, your kids will feel these assigment are meaningful. After that, children will complete it with exciting mood. Just when stand in adults’ position, children can feel love via parents’ affiction everyday. Then, children will behave properly in the future.
Third, parents should pick children to the other people position.
Putting your kids into the other people’ circumstances is so good for children. Comprehension and sympathy are sentimental basis to concern people around. Parents should educate children by some ways below. Parents should give children examples about miserable people via films, stories. And the best way is take some instances in real life. When see how people are miserable, sympathy in children will be created.
All family members should take part in helping miserable people when having a picnic. Via these activities, parents should directly explain with children about difficulty of people. Children should know how people around them are enduring. And, adults should instruct children how to cut difficulties for miserable people. Besides, via these activities, children will respect their life they are having more.
Giving children compliments when they help somebody
Suppose that your children helps somebody around them. In this case, you should let your children know how you proud of them. For instance, your children give younger sister eat. After they done, you should tell your children that they are a good elder brother or sister. In another circumstance, your children help an pregnant carry some bags. After your kids doing this thing, you should give them a hug and a compliment. Or you should take them to a place they like.
Let your children keep a pet at home.
If your family have condition, you should let your children feed a pet. Via some work to take care of dogs, cats or other pets, children will know how important to concern people.
You also can help your children balance between do housework and study everyday.
Parents chould infere at the right time.
Some children can have some wrong behaviours. They don’t care about people around them. In this case, parents shouldn’t criticise children too much. You should analyse how people around children will feel when your kids do it. Besides, you should let your children know how wrong they are.
Parents should teach children meaning of share with people around them. Besides, adults should let kids know about advantages of sharing with people around. For instance, you can tell your kids: “When you play with younger sister, she will feel great and you too.”
Parents should create gratitude habit for children.
Everyday, parents should requires children tell about the things make them feel happy.
To conclude, these things above are a little part to make children be a caring person. Children become a caring person or not depend almost on parents. So, I hope these things can help adults teach children be a good person.